*This is a passion post, so before you read further – please accept that the truest form of my spiritual gangsta-ness will appear, and there may be some cursing along the way. It is who I am.*
I’m super proud to say I’ve been doing this work professionally for 2 years. Time flies when you are having fun! I’ve been truly learning along the way, I have taken advice that works for me and thrown out what doesn’t, and I’ve grown immensely just trying to follow the beat of my heart and dance to my own rhythm.
That wasn’t always easy. I had some tough lessons along the way, but I never ever gave up (with the help of a super supportive husband). When I found out that my crazy turned out to be “Crazy in a good way” (thank you Bloom Post), I hit the ground running. I absorbed every bit of information I could, I took class after class (even the same class multiple times), I met with people, watched countless hours of YouTube (bad idea), read so many articles and books, and I really wanted to know anything and everything I could.
I still wasn’t set on the fact that I was supposed to be doing this for a living. It was scary, and daunting, and like I’ve said before, I was dead set (lol – pun intended) on being the next Taylor Swift. Never in a million years did I think I’d be where am I today and loving every moment of it. In the past two years of readings, group readings and classes, I’ve been able to witness the beautiful and healing messages of Spirit first hand. I’ve been able to see the connection and brilliance of Spirit trying to communicate that they are still with us, watching and guiding us from above, and I’ve seen fear turned into Faith. I didn’t know that such an incredible job was possible – never mind it being my job.
I’ve seen my life come full circle. I’ve met with my biggest role models and are even able to call some friends, one of the first Spirits I ever communicated with is connected to someone 2 years later that I’m with all the time, and I’ve just seen everything fall into place only because I’ve followed my heart.
DON’T get it twisted — I still doubt myself, have trouble trusting, and I search for validation everywhere (ask Joe). I’m certainly not perfect, but I’m doing the best I can for me.
But this isn’t only available to me. I am no different or more special than you. We are all able to communicate with our loved ones on the other side, we are all able to connect to the highest source, and we all should. We all have guides that love us and protect us unconditionally that we can start a trust relationship with, that can help guide us through this physical life. WE ALL ARE MEDIUMS.
You may be like, “what the f*ck.” while reading this. And that’s OK. I get it, I’m kinda talking myself out of a job here 😉 But real talk, I really only like to meet with a client one time a year (As with anything, there are special exceptions). I do not want anyone DEPENDING on me to talk to their loved ones. My job as a Professional Medium is to connect you with your loved ones, so that you know how they are communicating with you and what to look for so you can do it on your own. My job is to let you know they are safe and at peace by providing the evidence that supports that. But when my job is done, it’s up to you to keep the conversation going. Don’t worry – I’ll be here when you get stuck, but that is why I’m here.
The other question I get is, “If we are all Mediums, then are we meant to do it professionally?” PLEASE Read this, read-read this, I don’t care just please pay attention. The answer is NO. It is certainly not everyone’s life path to be a professional medium. Just because you can connect does not mean you should quit your job and open up shop as a Medium. I’ll refer to the analogy I quote often. “Everyone can learn to become a doctor. But is it everyone’s life path to be a doctor? Absolutely not. Alicia Keys is not meant to be a doctor, and she’d be doing the world a disservice if she didn’t follow her heart and share her music. BUT Alicia Keys COULD to be a doctor, she could learn about it all, and she could use it to help her family, or herself when she’s on the road.” Make sense?
** This is a very personal note – I understand Mediumship is the “cool” thing to do now, but before you go jumping into this work, please consider the responsibility of this work and your intentions for doing it. It is an amazing and beautiful ability to be able to recieve and channel messages from Spirit, but we must heal ourselves to help heal others. And it may be your life path, I’m not saying it’s not. Just follow your heart, not your head. **
But real talk, everyone can connect and everyone in my opinion should connect! It’s so wonderful to feel the unconditional love of Spirit supporting and guiding you all the time. There’s a lot of different ways to connect, but meditation is by far the most effective. A health and consistent meditation practice will bring you closer to Spirit within days. Meditation literally changes your brain waves, and highers your vibration. It’s truly beautiful, and it will help you heal as well.
Start now. Just take 5 minutes to close your eyes and DO NOT quiet your mind, notice your mind. See what is being shown to you. That is Spirit communication in the clairvoyant/third eye center.
Know that you are loved, supported and guided. None of this has to be scary, it does not have to be overwhelming, and you don’t have to feel all sorts of anxiety. Once you learn to connect and learn how you work, it’s an amazing and beautiful gift you can use in your everyday life to assist you and the ones you love most.
To tie this in a nice little bow, YOU ARE A MEDIUM. We all are.