LIVE IN LOVE. If you have picked up my business cards, looked at my wrist, or just talked to me you probably have seen the phrase Live In Love. I just got done with 2 readings and I had a group reading last week. Constantly I am reminded to live in love. In a society that is focused on negative, and in a world where its socially unacceptable to be yourself at times, I know that it is a hard thing to do. But Spirit comes in to say a lot of things about what they wish they would have said and how they can help now. I think that it is so beautiful that spirit comes in with nothing BUT love. I do not ask to see the negative of anything, and if they are going to show me something that may be unpleasant, it only be relevant and necessary in someones healing. Side tangent, but anyways I am guilty of focusing on the negative too. 88% of what I talk about are the PROBLEMS in my life and not the solutions. the other 10% is spirit related, and the 2% is probably what I SHOULD be focused on. Just this past weekend, I have shoveled through some things, and it really made me realize how easy it is to focus on the negative, instead of the positive. And to put it this way, I don’t want to go over to spirits side of life and have to come back and talk to a Medium to tell people I wish I would have focused more on all the things I love. It really made that real for me. I am setting my own intention to myself to live in love, and to be thankful for all that God (or whatever it is it you) has given me. I am a very lucky girl.
And isn’t it interesting how I got this bracelet. Sascha was my best friend my sophmore and junior year of high school. She welcomed me with open arms when I walked into my first day of school across the country, and pacific, in a place I had never been before. I was a military brat, and we literally moved to Hawaii 2 days before the start of my sophmore year. We were instabffs. She and I had many sleepovers and nights of watching Laguna Beach. I don’t remember what season it was, but we called ourself Rocky & Tessa +1. We always said plus one because the girls on the show had a way of messing up life and causing drama and we always said we would be stronger then that. Fast forward life, I got really into the druggy/eating disorder stage of my life, and she wasn’t having that. She was always there, but my actions caused alot of issues. She ended up with eating issues too (birds of a feather flock together), and we reconnected in Eating Disorder therapy. Fast forward, we still didn’t really stay close. I moved back to the east coast for senior year and Sh*t hit the fan for me. Sept of 2011 I got the call that Sascha has passed away. I didn’t even know how to react. I remember sitting there on the couch, I was watching Grimm and I just sat there. I told him I was ok. Then 5 minutes after, I just bust out in tears. I felt terrible that I had not been there, and that I had not stayed in contact. But it is SO amazing she is able to be with me now. She gave me that bracelet that I wear everyday. She was the one who came through and told the Medium I could see her. If it wasn’t for her, I don’t even know where I would be. She is with me in spirit and helps in readings. I love her and her contagious smile. She is my strength when I don’t have it. I love you Sascha.
Sascha gave me the gift of this message at age 16. I never really understood it until now. But I know that living in love, and being a vessel of love for others is an incredible gift. I am so lucky to do what I do for a living, and to be able to talk with me people who have incredible life lessons.
So that’s my message for today. LIVE IN LOVE. From Sascha and me.